我就是我
我拥有自己的一切:我的身体,以及我的一切行为;我的头脑以及我的一切想法和观点;我的眼睛以及他们所看到的一切;我的所有感觉:愤怒、喜悦、沮丧、友爱、失望和激动;我的嘴巴以及由它说出的一字一句:或友善亲切或粗鲁无礼,或对或错;我的声音:或粗犷或轻柔;还有我所有的行动,不论是对自己还是对别人。
我拥有我自己的想象,自己的梦想,自己的希望,自己的恐惧。
我的胜利和成功乃因为我;我的失败和错误也出于我。m
因为我拥有自己的全部,我和自己亲如手足。我学习跟自己相处,爱惜自己,善待属于自己的一切。现在我可以为自己做一切了。Q
我知道,我的一些方面让我困惑,另外一些则使自己不解。但只要我仍然善待自己爱惜自己,我就有勇气有希望解决困惑和进一步认识自我。
不管别人如何看我,不管那时我说了什么做了什么,想什么感觉到了什么,一切都真真实实地属于那时的自我。
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当我回想起自己的表现、言行、思想和感受,发现其中一部分已经不再适宜,我会鼓起勇气去抛弃不适宜的部分,保存经证实是适宜的部分,创造新的以代替被抛弃的部分。
我要能够看、听、感觉、说、做。我能够生存,能融入群体,能有所贡献,有所作为,让我所处的世界,我周围的人和事因我的存在而井井有条。
我拥有自我,那么我就能自我管理。
我就是我,自得其乐。
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I AM ME ' S3 V; k0 T7 D5 v! f
In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me- q+ p- l1 W
Everything that comes out of me is authentically me- Q, f! p3 b, Y/ Z3 ?) |$ z1 j! C
Because I alone chose it - I own everything about me
My body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions,
Whether they be to others or to myself -
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I own my fanatasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears - * W/ U6 @8 F" _4 j5 L0 L9 _& \
I own all my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes Because I own all of me,
I can become intimately acquainted with me - by so doing, ?! Q8 _+ M9 H. C/ O3 G
I can love me and be friendly with me in all my parts - I know1 G/ F+ i( {$ j( [
There are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know - + t9 M5 O/ W) a1 S8 s2 k
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But as long as I am friendly and loving to myself,
I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles
And for ways to find out more about me - However I look and sound,
Whatever I say and do, and whatever
I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me -
If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought and felt turn out to be unfitting, $ v0 r- O
I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that% q: |0 B2 b
Which I discarded - 1 p0 `4 Y5 t' q
I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be . `8 ~1 O
productive to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me - 5 {- u1 u% Z4 q& B) ~0 y7 E
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I own me, and therefore I can engineer me - I am me and
I AM OKAY